

On New Year’s Eve, we reflected on 2024 by answering some thought-provoking questions (I love doing this with the right persons around me!).
One of the questions was:
“Which three successes or milestones make you particularly proud.”
One of my answers was: “Being alone without being lonely.”
I’ve been single for a year now. I never, ever thought I’d be able to say this and still feel happy. It took me a long time to get there. In the past, being alone - even just for a week - felt awful.
It has become my new reality. And it’s totally fine! Of course, I’d love to meet someone again. I absolutely love sharing moments and experiences together. Sharing adventures and traveling with someone special is one of my biggest dreams, I guess.
But, in contrast to the past, I’m not desperately seeking someone. I’m not putting my full attention on it. The right time will come.
Now I can be alone.
Without feeling lonely.
And that’s a huge win for me. 14.02.2025
One of the questions was:
“Which three successes or milestones make you particularly proud.”
One of my answers was: “Being alone without being lonely.”
I’ve been single for a year now. I never, ever thought I’d be able to say this and still feel happy. It took me a long time to get there. In the past, being alone - even just for a week - felt awful.
It has become my new reality. And it’s totally fine! Of course, I’d love to meet someone again. I absolutely love sharing moments and experiences together. Sharing adventures and traveling with someone special is one of my biggest dreams, I guess.
But, in contrast to the past, I’m not desperately seeking someone. I’m not putting my full attention on it. The right time will come.
Now I can be alone.
Without feeling lonely.
And that’s a huge win for me. 14.02.2025